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be amazing anyway: self-love wrap-up + resources

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As self-love month comes to an end here at Positively Present, it's important to remember that self-love is something we should all be doing year 'round. Despite all of the challenges we face, despite all of the reasons we have to doubt, we should all continue to believe we're amazing anyway. As Elizabeth Alraune once said:


“You are as amazing as you let yourself be.
Let me repeat that. You are as amazing as you let yourself be!” 


Life can throw us a lot of curveballs and, sadly, too many of us hold ourselves back from doing what we really want to do because we don't believe in ourselves, we don't love ourselves. And that needs to stop now. We all need to let ourselves be amazing -- no matter what we're up against.

Hopefully this month of self-love celebration here at Positively Present has inspired you to love yourself and to realize the importance of believing in who you are. I know thinking about self-love for an entire month has really helped to put it in the forefront of my mind and has served as a reminder that loving oneself is so imperative to living a positive life. 

To sum up self-love month, I've gathered some resources for you to check out, including song lyrics, articles, and even a PDF printable of self-love affirmations that you can cut out and place around the house/office/car -- wherever you need reminders most. 


Self-Love Songs

Firework -- Katy Perry

Ambling Alp -- Yeasayer

Freckles -- Natasha Bedingfield

F*ckin' Perfect -- Pink

Spotlight -- Patrick Stump

Steer -- Missy Higgins

More Beautiful You -- Johnny Diaz

True Colors -- Cyndi Lauper

Pony (It's Okay) -- Erin McCarley

Shimmer -- Shawn Mullins

Born a Lion -- Ani DiFranco

You're Beautiful -- James Blunt

Video -- India.Arie

A Place in This World -- Taylor Swift

Be Yourself -- Audioslave

Imperfect is the New Perfect -- Caitlin Crosby


Self-Love Articles + Resources

My Smiling Heart: Self-Love Printables

Wrap Yourself in Self-Worth

4 Ways To Embrace Imperfections

I Am Enough: A Self-Kindness Collaborative

Ordinary Courage

Madly in Love with Me

Ms. Magazine: Self Love is a Battlefield

17 Ways to Love Yourself


Self-Love Printable from Positively Present


And even though self-love month is coming to an end -- don't forget how important it is. You deserve to be loved by yourself. No one or nothing should ever take that away from you. If you find yourself in a situation that hinders you from loving yourself, get out of it. If you find yourself around people who don't encourage you to love yourself, get away from them. Regardless of what you might think sometimes, you ARE amazing. And no matter what you're facing or what others say -- choose to be amazing anyway.

words to love yourself by: the search ends here




Feel it falling off like clothing 
Taste it rolling on your tongue 
See the lights above you glowing 
Oh and breathe them deep into your lungs 

It was always simple, not hidden hard 
You've been pulling at the strings 
Playing puppeteer for kings 
And you've had enough 

But the search ends here 
Where the night is totally clear 
And your heart is fierce 
So now you finally know 
That you control where you go 
You can steer 

So hold this feeling like a newborn 
All the freedom surging through your veins 
You have opened up a new door 
So bring on the wind, fire and rain 

It was always simple, not hidden hard 
You've been played at a game 
Called remembering your name 
And you stuffed it up 

But the search ends here 
Where the night is totally clear 
And your heart is fierce 
So now you finally know 
That you control where you go 
You can steer 

And now you finally know
That you control where you go 
You can steer 

'Cause you've been listening for answers 
Oh but the city screams and all your dreams go unheard 

But the search ends here 
Where the night is totally clear 
And your heart is fierce 
So now you finally know 
That you control where you go 
You can steer 

And get out of the box 
And step into the clear 

Cause now you finally know 
That you can steer


Missy Higgins

If you have 4 minutes, watch the video for this song. It's beautiful and Missy's voice is just so inspiring! "Words To Live By" is a segment on Positively Present that features my favorite quote or lyrics from the week. Every Sunday I post a quote or lyrics that have inspired me with the hope that they'll inspire you too. Comments will be closed on these posts, but feel free to tweet the post if you enjoy it or contact me via Twitter.  

positive change: an interview with the creator of iaam


February 2011 has been all about self-love here at Positively Present, and last month I was fortunate enough to be introduced to a site that really promotes and encourages self-love an positivity. is a website geared toward teenagers, but it's really a site that anyone can enjoy. It's an interactive media platform that promotes positivity in all aspects of life -- and definitely worth checking out. If you're looking for some positive inspiration and articles on various life skills, iaam is the place for you. 

Tell us a little about What does the acronym stand for and what can readers expect to find on the site?

The Teen Entertainment & Life Skills Multimedia Network,, is an interactive multimedia platform providing entertainment and life skills information to teens and their parents and teachers. provides valuable information on money, career, entrepreneurship, self confidence, and overall success for teens  through interviews with professionals and life-skill articles and blogs, while free online games, movie trailers, music videos, quizzes, polls, and free contests boost the fun. empowers teens to showcase talents that make them unique. By encouraging individuality and promoting positive media, iaam allows teens to shine on site. 

iaam is acronym  for “I am a millionaire” in all aspects of life. Media already bombards teenagers with messages of being millionaire as an ultimate prize in the society.  iaam inspires teens to redefine wealth, to be rich in all that matters, and to embrace their futures believing “I am a millionaire” in all aspects of life.

What inspired you to create iaam?  Why did you choose to focus on this particular audience?

As I got older and busier as a mother, I wanted to do what I love to do, make a difference, and earn a living all in one place. iaam achieved that balance. Teens are consuming more media than ever, but unfortunately, the images they see often reinforce gender stereotypes, emphasize unrealistic body images or show women in passive roles. The need for more positive images of teens in the media was clear to me. Being a parent of twin girls, I also understood the impact of media on impressionable young minds. I wanted my daughters to be exposed to positive and empowering media to help them succeed in all aspects of life and fulfill their inner potential. That was one of the primary reasons for me to be a media entrepreneur.  

Our society is only as good as our next generation. By not guiding our youth on a path to success we cannot expect to be leaders in the world.  According to a national survey by the Kaiser Family Foundation, 8- to 18-year-olds devote an average of 7 hours, 38 minutes to entertainment media in a typical day, or over 53 hours a week. It’s essential that teens are exposed to positive ideas so they look forward to creating a successful future. Young adults need a place to go where their dreams are nurtured and where they can discover how to strike a good balance in their lives early and overcome challenges they face.  As a media entrepreneur, I want to provide a positive message to counteract the negative messages of violence, deceit, sex, and drugs that bombard today’s teens. 

What media outlets/resources do you look to for positive inspiration?

I look to variety of media outlets to keep me inspired and motivated. Every day I try to look up positive quotes from websites like and Entrepreneurship is a long challenging road to success so being a positive person helps to fulfill your goals and stay on the mission. I enjoy positive entrepreneurship communities and websites like and I also like to read inspirational stories and articles at and I enjoy websites like to get you fired up and inspired! 

My favorite thing to do is to watch old episodes of “StarTrek Voyager” with my daughters and have them appreciate the leadership role of the female captain. Currently I’m reading Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand.  When I need an uplift in my day I can always pick up Think & Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill.


How does positivity play a role in the cultivation of the iaam community?

From early on we designed the site to celebrate intelligence and creativity and be a place teens can dream. We are raising a tide of socially responsible media whose ultimate mission is to make teens successful. One cannot achieve success and happiness without being positive. Positive attitude, persistence, and new ideas are the main ingredients of true success. Why not help our youth follow the same path as successful people and help them build fulfilling and accomplished lives? When has gossip and negativity really helped anyone? This young generation has an enormous challenge ahead of them and we must help them prepare for what’s ahead and give them the right tools to succeed in life.


Who are some of the positive people working behind the scenes at iaam?

Everyone on our team: web designers, webmaster, and all our contractors are so excited to be part of something positive and make a difference in the world. They put their best work on the site every day. Our virtual interns, bloggers, and writers believe in our mission and their strong desire to make a difference in their peers’ lives makes a huge impact on behind the scenes. Their energy and work drive our mission.

What essential tips does iaam share with readers when it comes to living a positive life?

We are always growing and learning. Why can’t we share our wisdom and positive reinforcement in the lives of teens? Our top and foremost message is to do what you love, believe in yourself, try to be unique, and stay positive. We also channel the message that the mind is the most powerful part in your body and your thoughts are your road to what you want your life to be.  Happiness and success cannot be achieved without positive thinking! Being surrounded by positive people is a very important tip we share with teens. We interview people from all walks of life and share their hard work, their passion, and what they gave up to follow their path to success.


How can others become more involved with iaam?

Websites like are critical to a positive teen internet experience. iaam is growing organically through a grassroots movement. Here’s how you can get involved:


  1. Join the iaam community. In addition to its teen/young adult community iaam features a parent/teacher community you can join.
  2. Help spread the word about iaam by being our Facebook fan and Twitter follower.
  3. Repost links to iaam articles you like on Facebook and retweet them on Twitter.
  4. If you are a blogger or a website owner share our site with your viewership, review our site, and/or link to our site so your viewers are one click away from a positive entertaining life-skills network.
  5. If you are writer or blogger share your thoughts and ideas with teens on iaam.
  6. Share our site with your teen and other parents and teachers.


We all have to work together and challenge mainstream media by showing we care what our youth are exposed to. I’m proud to say we’re getting incredible support from teens, communities, bloggers, writers, entrepreneurs, etc. I believe everyone understands what we are trying to accomplish because they were teens themselves. One of the questions I always get is “Where was when I was growing up?”

If you could offer any positive words of wisdom to young readers, what would they be?

"Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world." - Harriet Tubman

LELA Media Inc., based in Albuquerque, New Mexico, is the first national positive teen media company. Founder Malini Hoover is a passionate teen advocate and she launched LELA Media Inc. to make a positive and lasting impact on today’s youth.  Please visit and be our Facebook fan. Share with your friends -- and keep an eye out for featured posts by Positively Present on the site!